Overcome the self-defeating patterns that are keeping you from becoming ALL of who you were created to be.
Do you feel like you can't get any momentum on the things that matter to you?
Do you find yourself stressed, overwhelmed, or tense more often than you like?
Are your closest relationships not what you know they could be?
Do you lack clarity on how to get from where you are to where you want to be?
Don't let another year go by with nothing changing. Its time to begin cultivating your inner life so that your outer life can flourish.
Hi, we're Matt & Crystal. We are Christian life coaches who specialize in Inner Work.
We know how frustrating it is to have a vision for your life (what you believe God is calling you to), but not know how to make it a reality.
We found ourselves in this place in 2019, we had a picture of where we wanted to be, but obstacles kept stacking on us and keeping us from getting there.
After one too many things stacked on us–work, relationships, debt, mental health–we eventually hit an emotional "brick wall."
We were at a loss and didn't know how to move forward. Our old strategy of just pushing through (with external effort) and hoping things would get better wasn't working, and we didn't know what else to do.
That is when God began leading us to explore our inner life and we made a simple, yet profound discovery: that our inner life and outer life are connected.
You can't flourish on the outside if you are not already flourishing on the inside; one flows from the other, not the other way around.
As a result, we spent the next half-decade on a journey of Inner Work, gaining so much insight into 'why we do the things we do' and collecting powerful tools to shift our inner landscape, that we felt this needed to be shared with others.
That is why we founded Pursue What Matters coaching: to equip believers with the path and tools they need to cultivate their inner life so their outer life can flourish.
"Crystal helped me a lot!"
"Crystal helped me resolve the inner conflict inside of me and really stand for what I want. Today I have clarity on what I want and feel free to chase what is my calling."
- Debora
"Game changing!"
"After just three sessions with Matt I felt like I have gained more value with regard to practically tackling troubling seasons than I had in years of expensive therapy."
- Amanda
"This is truly a gift!"
"The tools and techniques I've been practicing with Crystal's guidance have been invaluable both personally and professionally! They have allowed me to make the most of my strengths and address my vulnerabilities which helps me be my authentic best self."
- Kimberly
Soul-nourishing mini course where we show you how to incorporate spiritual practices into your everyday life so you can create space in all the busyness to feel grounded, experience God's presence, and discern His voice.
Feel grounded & centered
Experience God's presence
Discern God's voice
Transformational inner work program designed to guide you step-by-step to understand 'why you do the things you do' and equip you with powerful tools to shift your inner life so you can cultivate greater peace, presence, and purpose.
Gain deep self awareness
Heal past wounds
Step into your calling and purpose
BECOME
Life-changing retreat where you will go on a physical and spiritual pilgrimage to overcome any fears, limiting beliefs, or blindspots that are keeping you from breaking through and showing up as ALL of who you were created to be.
Overcome internal obstacles
Experience breakthrough
Connect with likeminded believers
Get a Clear Vision
Get a clear vision for the future as you discern the areas where God is speaking to you and calling you to step out in faith.
Abide with Jesus
Cultivate a deep and vibrant relationship with Jesus as you experience more of His presence and peace in your life.
Compassionate Inner Voice
Develop a compassionate inner voice to serve as a compass to guide your thoughts, feelings, and actions.
Find Fulfillment
Find out what truly fills your cup and re-ignites the spark that's been dormant inside you.
Strengthen Relationships
Build stronger and more meaningful connections with those closest to you by knowing yourself better.
Take Bold Steps Forward
Live boldly, dream big, and pursue the calling God has laid on your heart
• Create Space
• Flourish
Retreats:
• Become
• Hey Honey
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